Gambling is such an addiction that even if a good gambler the addict is addicted to gambling. Gambling creates lawlessness in society when the player feels compelled to play so he cannot refrain from repeating the gambling activity and he does not control the way the game is played. Due to the influence of gambling, conflict and strife increased in the society. A beautifully orderly society gradually turns chaotic due to gambling if you can control yourself the negative effects of addiction will not fall on the society.
But a good gambler can control himself so as not to become addicted to gambling because he already knows that he must be able to gamble in moderation and not use a lot of money. But if he prefers to gamble secretly, he should also know that he has more chances of becoming a gambling addict, especially if he does not have good self-control. And when he becomes a gambling addict, he will probably gamble longer than before he became a gambling addict because, at that time, all he can think about is gambling. It can also cause problems that will grow in the family because it will disrupt the family's financial position.
Well, that is something that many gambling addicts take into consideration, because if we gamble in secret then most likely we will not be able to control our gambling because there is no one to advise us when we gamble excessively, and you are right. That over time we will become gambling addicts because all we chase is victory and ignore defeat.
And if we don't have self-control when gambling, then it is true that the money we have will be lost and this will cause problems for our family.
It cannot be denied that when gambling it is very difficult to control oneself, especially if there are problems (be it family problems or problems with a partner), quite a few people take it out on gambling and spend a lot of money on gambling, people who get emotional are usually difficult to control, controlling Self-control is necessary but only a few people can exercise self-control depending on the person, therefore there is no need to hide your gambling habits when you have a problem, talk about the problem carefully so that things don't happen that can harm yourself.