Quite clear that gamblers often need to take care of they emotional well being of others to stay ahead in making game calculations and decisions that will place them in a better position.
But that's one hard task when the gambler has been in the sensation of winning and losing. Why both?
It's because winning gives that emotion that we're like untouchable and we want to gamble more. And with losing, it is giving us the bad that we have to recover and we can't be losers so, we continue even with that emotional attachment and reminder that we shouldn't.
It's hard to beat this matter when you're in both enjoyment and feeling because even you are aware that you need to stay calm, you can't say what happens next.
Quite agree with you, but then, there is what is called self control, winning will make any gambler happy and would want to play more since he or she believes that every win gives him or her an easy money - quite understandable.
While losing on the other hand will also make the gambler want to keep playing as well, in a bid to atleast, see if he or she can recover some of the funds he or she has lost - very much understandable as well .
Yes, there is self control but also that's one thing that we're forgetting when we're too focus in our bets. We want to control it but we're being controlled by our own emotions.
But you and I know that this feelings are normal, there is nothing extraordinary with it, all we need; to do away with such feeling is self control, a food that is so tasty makes you wanna eat more and more, but with self control, we force ourselves up when we know we are full, even while there is still a lot available to eat.
It is same also with gambling , those who have self control will not gambling above their limits, regardless of winning or losses .
That is it, we need to force ourselves for us to make that actuality of self control. Because you'll have to break it down until you are able to control yourself. Yes, those who knows how to control themselves have their own limits and they can do that on their own.