I do feel it, but there is no solution for that. You can only use L1 or L2 blockchains, which have better scalability compared with the mainstream network like ethereum. I do agree with you if the mechanism of defi was not effective, especially on ethereum blockchain which any transcation will be involving very high fees. The only solution to push those developers to work on update in increasing the scalability from the blockchain. If you are willing to get cheap fees for your transaction and i can suggest you to stick with L2 blockchain.


https://l2fees.info/

You can use some like polygon, arbitrum or optimism. Using L1 non scalable blockchain like ethereum will make you only waste your money to pay the transaction fees.