Clearly at OP, ur family and trustees no fit save guard u where dem supposed harm u just by telling them ur whereabouts. Just as ur storyline, if the guys has told their parents (trustees) about their where to or whereabouts and they kidnapers hit them, how the family (trustees) want take give save guard response to that scenes?

Taking the busy roads self no dey too encouraging afterall them say the road to success dey narrow while the rd to poverty dey very broad just as the road to heaven is narrow and rd to hell is broad as may say

The truth be say... Tell family and or trustees ur whereto or ur whereabouts Incase of necessity references

As for safety, u owe urself that one by being mindful of where u goes and who u associates with.