In my own opinion I believe everything happens for a reason, for everything there is a season and a time for every matter understand heaven. Secondly, the kind of work you enagage yourself too matters a lot and also your responsibilities and your challenges might not be the same with some else. However, I will advise you not to compare yourself with some else, cause one thing have learnt in life is patient, have even seen a situation where a man worked hard and yet nothing to write about but sometimes the ones that will not put effort those are the people favour will locate but in all work hard.