Everyone wants to be rich, but everyone has a different view in assessing wealth, whether it is wealth of the heart, financial or other things, this can be the subject of their assessment.
These days, there's only one description for being rich and that's all about money. Whether we like it or not, that's what truly is what the majority believes. Being wealthy is all about money to the most but as you've said which is right, there are many descriptions of what being wealthy really is. And as we goal for being rich, there have been methods that are being done the odd way or we should say that it is no longer odd because many are doing it.
But it's true that getting married requires money, but that doesn't mean you have to wait to get rich first to get it, this is a little different. IMO
Yes, working your ass 24/7 to become rich just before getting married. Many got that mindset before that everyone should be at the best status of their lives before they get married. But that's not the point or it is the point because as you have said that we've got different views.