Well now you are back, it's nice that you raised such a thread of which most members have given you advice on how to go about growing your account. If you really want to earn more merits and grow your Account here on Bitcointalk then you have to be active on some boards where there's possibility to earn merits. Merits often take time to accumulate. Don't be discouraged if you don't see immediate results. Keep contributing positively, and recognition may come over time.you just have to remember that the most important aspect is to genuinely contribute to the community and enjoy your interactions with others. Over time, your efforts are likely to be noticed and rewarded with merits.