Some people will cry after getting served the wrong flavor ice cream or getting splashed from the pool, it doesn't really matter what triggers someone off. I don't think you should judge someone for this reason, we can all be caught off guard at times and should always be trying to support each other through life. However some people do set themselves up for failure, for example if they keep putting any money they find into this losing endeavour because they have zero self control and impulsively want to continue. There is nothing wrong with failure, as long as you learn from past mistakes.