My two NEMs worth......
With people on a waiting list, giving multiple stakes to a single person seems to be a recipe for disaster. If these people feel so 'precious' about the stake then let them buy them @ market rate once NEM is live. IMO zero involvement in NEM should = zero stake.
Why not make sure people on waiting list get it first, refund the rest and put the stakes left into the auction and whatever funds are gained use them for marketing of NEM.
This will do more for NEM than 5/10/15/20 stakes for someone who says he/she has bough them for someone.
While NEM fundraising central principle is still the same, there is a certain "legacy" in the initial stage of fundraising as the rules are not lay out clearly enough. I will make sure real accounts with potential contribution in the waiting list will get a share, however even the waiting list also have many sock accounts with exactly 1 post who is no better than friend accounts here.