Exactly! Gender shouldn't have anything to do with it. In today's time it has already been proved over and over again that women can do what men can and vice versa. Gender stereotypes should already be a thing of the past. Women has fought for their acknowledge and rights to not be closed and limited by the standards and roles set to them by society and by doing so it now gives men the confidence to express our emotions more openly and show vulnerability at times. It's the 21st century! What we can and can't do based on our gender should be the least of our concerns.
You're right, I agree with you on some points that currently there isn't much of a difference between men and women in these comparisons. Maybe earlier we had a misconception that women cannot do all the work that men can do, but now due to the increase in women's education, these misconceptions have changed. I think that although the ability of women's emotional control is actually less than men's, in these cases I do not want to compare women or men who are more economical. Because I have seen in many cases that in a family I know, the man spends more waste than his wife.