Sure, you can not get involved, you may as well - do something better with your life. But to pretend "ah these are just two different sides", is certainly over simplifying a problem that humans have struggled with for millennia. Millions have died in crusades, forced religious conversions and religious conflicts and everything that stems from that.
Based on your logic then you should stand against Israel, Israel is a Jewish state that uses religion as an excuse to perform ethnic cleansing against everyone who is not a jew, it includes Muslims, Christians, and even atheists, if you are going to use Hamas as an excuse (since this is what your biased western media teaches you) then let me inform you that Hamas doesn't extend past the Gaza strip and yet Israel has been commenting human right violation of all sorts against the Palastains of different religion in every place regardless, and these are not just my words -- every Israeli based human rights organization confirms this, the Palestinians don't want to make an Islamic or Christian state, they want to get back the lands which the Zionist Jewish took from them with the help of the British.
So ya, I couldn't agree more, religious-based wars/expansion/settling are the worst things in the world, and we should all stand against Israel.
Try waving the 1960s peace flag when someone tries to execute you randomly in a suicide bomb, a plane hijack, a beheading ceremony or other forms of barbaric torture.
Trying to apply modern humane ideologies ("But, I'm for peace") against a barbaric organisation who cares nothing about that
Oh allow me to correct the date for you, it was 1945 when the U.S detonated two atomic bombs on Japanese civilians and killed hundreds of thousands of them.
Consider when large parts of the Arab world do drop their backward religious thought somewhat -> prosperity, women can go to school etc.
Religion and prosperity are not related by any means, the Arabs don't need to drop their religion for prosperity, you can check the GDP scale to figure that much out, and for schools, 55.8% of graduates in Saudi Arabia are women, for example, are women, women do go to school in ALL Arab countries, they just don't teach them about all the LGPT stuff you teach your kids, ya, and no school-shooting.
So the way I see it, you shouldn't be worrying about arab women, you got enough shit to fix at home first.