If that's the case, just give theymos a suggestion to remove the DT system. So there will be no more abuse of the trust system.
If you have a wound at a leg which hurts you, do you cut off your leg, not not feel any leg pain anymore? Or do you take some painkillers?
The problem will be resolved. In the end, you will most likely reconcile with ratimov and remove the negative tags you placed on each other's profiles.
This will not happen. Not from my side. I can not reconcile with a thief.
In the end, neither of you is right, you both are just abusing the trust system by sticking negative tags on each other's profiles.
...says the one which did not even bother to read the OP, in order to understand the purpose of this discussion.