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Board Gambling discussion
Re: Will you leave gambling if your future wife/husband tells you to do this ?
by
len01
on 29/10/2023, 03:04:20 UTC
Will you leave gambling if your future wife/husband tells you to do this ?
There are many different reasons and ways to respond to each person's behavior on this issue. Obviously, if gambling were simply entertainment, I would not quit and try to convince my partner otherwise to experience these things together. But if you are overwhelmed with debt and negativity or are about to get bogged down in addiction, then I think you definitely have to give up, although this is easier said than done and the actual actions are very different. Anyway, if family life is happier, don't let small problems dominate the relationship. If we want to maintain harmony and have others understand us, we should also put ourselves back in their thoughts to feel.

Two-way communication with your partner is very important, don't let it happen that because we hide our gambling behavior our relationship with our partner is destroyed. my partner knows that I gamble quite often, but he still keeps an eye on me, even when I want to bet on a football match, he often helps me choose which team to choose, he is an open man and always controls my habits. he always checks on me so that I don't miss out on using money in gambling. When you decide to live with someone else, there are no more secrets between the two of you, accept all the advantages and disadvantages and correct what you both think is wrong.
well, this is very correct and I fully support your opinion when we have a partner who tries to openly tell each other about honesty, it is much better than having to carry out gambling activities in secret which will have a bad effect in the long term on our relationship. I also often say that in some places it is better to say everything and I am sure that as a partner you will definitely understand and provide opportunities to gamble even though you are always supervised, but your partner has good intentions so that you are not addicted because that is very normal and we should be grateful to our partner. we want to give ourselves the freedom to gamble, but still with the condition that we are responsible for the bets and we have to respect our partner when we lose control and he says we have to stop betting, at least we have to respect and stop for a moment.