Get the context of what's being discussed ser. It's not about giving up custody
I am following the context of what's being discussed: You are desperate to take advantage of newbies by convincing them that they should use "mixing sites", which are honeypots of data that can steal your coins.
To the newbies/plebs. Mixers, the honest services, are incentivized by profit. If they do a good service, then more people will use them = more profit. Kruw is merely having a bad mood because of her period.
I am here (along with Theymos) to warn users NOT to use these centralized mixers:
For everyone looking to improve their privacy, I highly recommend checking out Wasabi, especially over centralized "mixers".
You can insult Theymos and I by saying we are on our periods, but we are protecting newbs from having their coins stolen or tracked.