I also know so many youths that we grew up together that had similar and some, worse off experiences growing up with their parents, and now that we've grown and some of us have started a family of our own, some have started repeating this circle in their homes.
How do we balance the part of providing finance for the home and the responsibility of being there for our children as a father?
Abi if we de provide for the financial need of our homes, e mean to say we don fulfill our role as fathers?
I no really experience dis kind life when I dey grow up, so I no think say I dey in a better position to give advise on what to do. All I know was that, me and my father dey very close and a day doesn’t pass by without us seeing each other unless he travels out of town. But make I still chip in small; for d society wey we dey, if father no get provide for family dem go day na bad father or an incapable person, and now again dis same society na him go still blame you if you dey focus on looking for money to feed d family with your type of work not permitting you to meet your family always. My question now be say; make him leave the work come sit down for house dey look the family and make dem all die of hunger or lack all basic amenities, sometimes no be their fault and if na understanding family dem suppose understand and na d mama go play vital role for here for d children not to think of their father as an irresponsible man or leaving the job of his fatherhood to them and focusing on making money only.