Will you leave gambling if your future wife/husband tells you to do this ?
There are many different reasons and ways to respond to each person's behavior on this issue. Obviously, if gambling were simply entertainment, I would not quit and try to convince my partner otherwise to experience these things together. But if you are overwhelmed with debt and negativity or are about to get bogged down in addiction, then I think you definitely have to give up, although this is easier said than done and the actual actions are very different. Anyway, if family life is happier, don't let small problems dominate the relationship. If we want to maintain harmony and have others understand us, we should also put ourselves back in their thoughts to feel.
If gambling has a bad impact on household harmony then it is better for us to stop doing this activity, but if gambling is still done within reasonable limits and does not really disturb the family's financial condition then talk to your partner carefully and convince your partner so that they trust us to continue doing it in a reasonable amount, don't let it happen that just because you want to gamble, household harmony becomes a mess, of course we want to gamble in peace without any pressure from anyone and in my opinion, gambling that doesn't disturb your finances certainly won't be a big problem for your partner.
Yes, I agree with you, even though you already have your own family and responsibilities, gambling is not wrong if you can limit the game and can prioritize family over gambling, because people's pleasures are different, for example there are people who have no friends or shy people who don't like to talk, people like this tend to have their fun in games, whether it's gambling or other online games. Judging from the differences in each person, they have their own portion.
There is even the opposite of people who gamble but can limit their gambling so as not to damage the harmony of their family, but on the other hand there are people who do not gamble but always ignore their family. So it is only natural that people gamble even though they already have a family as long as they can limit their gambling so that it does not have a negative impact on their family. So I myself agree with what you said, if they do gambling with reasonable limits it's okay. as long as it doesn't damage the happiness of his family.