Re: Will you leave gambling if your future wife/husband tells you to do this ?
Will you leave gambling if your future wife/husband tells you to do this ?
- If I were in this situation, I'd definitely have to consider it. First and foremost, I'd have an open conversation with her about what I'm involved in, whether it's gambling or trading. If I'm consistently making profits, I'd provide a clear explanation to help her understand.- I understand it won't be an easy conversation, but I believe that if I'm transparent and let her track my progress, she'll come to understand.
- Conversely, if my gambling is purely for entertainment, giving up a hobby like this for the person I love isn't a big sacrifice. If possible, I might discuss setting aside a small budget for gambling with her.
- Ultimately, I believe family and loved ones should come first in all decisions.
A good conversation will probably do the trick. We are the ones who will be on the hot seat but answering honestly will be the key to making it a successful conversation.
Tell her everything. Hiding something even just a little will make things worse especially with women who have good instincts. If we are not hiding anything then we also prevent future problems.
But when it comes to the ending of the conversation where the woman doesn't really like it even if it's just a small amount of bets then just let it go. Give her what she wants and find a new hobby. It's not worth it to force the issue. A healthy relationship is two-way, not one-way, and it's just give and take. A good comeback will probably be for her to buy you a new toy. A console game will be a good idea.
