After God and your health, the most important thing to be concerned and intentional about should be to work on your financial stability, It will save you from a whole bunch of problems. When you become a bit financially stable, you will discover that you've solved a reasonable amount of your problems and that all the major problems you attributed to external factors like relationships family sentiment lack of friends, not being noticed in public, and whatever minor thing you've taken as your problem has been solved.

As some comedians will say, if you don't have money, whatever you saying isn't correct.