Reality wise, it's easy to say that you can be responsible, but it's hard to embrace that mentality, as gambling always going to push you to ask for more.
Yeah, I agree. When we're saying things like be responsible in gambling, it's actually easy to say but when you're dealt with the reality then that's when it's hard to deal with it. It's not just gambling that you push you to do more but it is your own decision that picks up the situation that you have to gamble and continue even if you've got almost nothing left anymore.
The case for most gamblers is that we're starting responsible but when we're already in the middle of it, that's when things change. We want to gamble more even if we don't have money anymore because we've lost a lot of money and we can't accept the fact that we're losers so we chase, we recover and then we lose again. The cycle continues that makes us stuck on that which makes gambling is harder for us because the reality is there but we can't accept it.
So, when a gambler has already lost everything that's when he's going to be knocked by realization that he did the wrong thing. When he's got the opportunity to gamble and then made some profits, he didn't withdraw and stopped.
Yeah we start responsible and we think that we can continue and being one, but when situtation triggers that's the time we forget about that responsibility, we continue to chase, either we are in the winning side where we keep trying to add more and have that mindset that we can continue winning with the strategy that we are using or even we are in the losing side where we are trying to chase back our loses, only to realized that at the end of the session most of the time the outcome is on the otherside, not on our favor and we regret that we did try to push while we still have the time to quit and stop.