Will you leave gambling if your future wife/husband tells you to do this ?
Your phrasing is very difficult to understand. It took me a while to understand what you mean, because I was expecting at least an additional verb or something in your post. What you mean is: Would you leave gambling if your future wife/husband asked it of you? And honestly? Yeah I would. A wife/husband is something completely different than simply a boyfriend and a girlfriend. You can find a million girlfriends but you can only ever find one wife. So yeah, I would leave gambling if she asked me to do that.
Gambling to a lot of people especially gambling addicts is something that very important engagement that they'll never want to leave for anything but no matter how important gambling can be, I don't think it's valuable enough to be compared to the request of one's lifetime partner. If my spouse forbids gambling and asks me not to engage in it, I'll definitely adhere to her instruction at the moment but I'd I still want to gamble in secret when she's not around and wouldn't leave any traces that even know that I still do what she forbids
I would really be doing the same and there's no other important thing on this world but rather on your soon to be your partner in life on which you cant really afford on losing her.
Its not that you can totally be leaving out gambling which you could really be still be able to play secretly but of course dont make yourself get caught because once you do then
for sure it would really be that a severe argument which might cause some divorce if things gets worst but if you do want to have some worry free kind of situation
then quitting wont really be that hard if you meant it but if you cant really that able to leave gambling since this is the only thing on where you could really enjoy
on then you could be still be able to engage but just as been said that you should not make yourself get caught.
If im on that situation then i would really just simply tell my wife to be that this is the only thing that i do make myself entertained when i do get bored or when in stress or in vacant.
Just let her know about on the amount which you would be using with gambling which it wont really be able to compromise your finances. Make some promise and
assurance then for sure she wont really be making some argument but if not then you dont have no other choice.