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Board Gambling discussion
Re: Gambler avoiding friends after a big win.
by
Oilacris
on 16/11/2023, 22:25:10 UTC
After all I finished with my bet headed home and was asking myself what could the colleague act that way avoiding his close friends they all gambling together and just because luck shines on him first he decides to create a distance and class. I couldn't actually annex a good reason why anyone should do that.
That's why it's good we all have to be mindful of the kind of friends we keep, because a true friend can never abandon you no matter how rich he gets, but yet try his position best to ensure he support his friends to become successful in life, because there is a parable we always say in our local language "Na one hand dey wash another" which means the people who you assist today while you are rich, are likely to be the same people that will assist you tomorrow when you are no more financially buoyant. As this thing called Money revolves from one person to another in due time. Hence, we should never neglect people when we are given the opportunity to assist them in times of need.
When someone wins a large amount in gambling he hides it from his friends because everyone knows that it is very easy to earn in gambling without any hard work if one is lucky and that is why if a friend hears that another friend has won a large amount in gambling then that  He may ask for money as a loan or for any other reason. Everyone tries to hide this fear. I don't know this more clearly because I have never been in such a situation and my friends have never done anything like that to me.
You havent experience because you havent been able to win up bigtime but on the situation on which you are already that making that huge win then for sure you would really be having that kind of situation and thinking that your friends would really be asking some bonus or would really be taking up some loan just because of the situation you are in on which winning up a huge amount?
This would really be the nearest reason on why someone would really be doing their best on trying to hide from their friends or even into their family just on having that fear with those
winnings to be that reduced. lol. That kind of thinking is really that a selfish one but well its our money then you do have the rights on what you should gonna do but of course
once you do dump your friends then there's no way for you to go back yet they would really be having that bad impression of you for the rest of their lives.