That's right, it's best to throw away thoughts like that, that gambling is not a place to realize hopes, but a place to entertain ourselves when we feel bored, so we only do it when we need it.
Yes, gamble by placing small bets so that if we lose of course the loss won't be too heavy a burden in life, and that's right, use gambling just for fun and most importantly balance it with activities that are beneficial to yourself, namely work. . What is clear is that every month we get a salary, not from hoping for luck in gambling where we cannot predict the winnings.
I came to the conclusion that I can only win a few times to be in the winning, so I play extremely rarely. But the more we play, the more we pay the gambling establishment. I have no illusions that I can make money from gambling. The mistake of the majority is that everyone thinks that they can earn money, but this will not happen. You can only check this with your own money. I watch some professional players who stream. This is additional income for them from advertising the gambling office and user donations. Only such players will be able to earn money, but not spectators who want to become the same, but never will.
Your conclusion is correct and most gamblers have also experienced the same thing, namely only winning a few times. Furthermore, from that win, it depends on yourself whether you maintain good control or not, if you have won several times and rarely gamble then in my opinion that is the right control, maybe you already have a good idea that gambling does not always make money. and this behavior needs to be imitated for beginners.
Of course, professional players who already have a lot of experience in gambling, there are some of them who live stream on the internet and that is not a problem in my opinion because on the other hand they will get rewards from the company or also from the many people who watch. For us, just think of it as motivation so that we don't take the wrong steps in gambling, so don't expect too much that we will be lucky like these professional gamblers.