I don’t even know getting one merit is that hard, if you can’t make good post as you have been directly to as it obvious that your post quality is very poor, by just asking the right question about some issue which the question appear to be honest can even earn you a merit in this forum.

You just need to work on your self and your posting style and this one merit that you are looking for will be gotten before you even know it, publicly or privately begging for merit like this will only get you end up in people’s ignore list and when you make that quality post that could have earned you the merit those who could have merit you might not see the post again as a result of you already being in their ignore list.