So do you think spoiling children is wrong, even if it's with the intention of making them happy, is it wrong?
I think there is a border between spoiling and giving comfort, I believe we could give comfort to children without spoiling them. As for example in real case, we can send our kids to the best school with good facility and good social life, but we shouldn't interfere with his activity in the school.
Giving the best comfort is parents responsibility, but spoiling kids is not, most spoiled kids end up having bad behavior.
I bet to disagree that all the blame should be pointed out to the parents alone. The environment is also a big factor that affects the growth and welfare of our kids.
This is true, especially when the kids start to get into teenagers phase, they will spend most of their time with their friends instead of their parent, the privilege of being a rich parent is they usually have the option to put their kids in good environment, while low-middle class parent don't have many options.