How do you deal with the situation where people who you are close to like family and friends are constantly demanding for one kind of financial assistance or the other. It is not possible to help everyone, so how do you handle it and make sure that giving and trying to help people do not turn into a problem for you. How about people who borrow money from you and never return it or even show any effort to make payment back to you, how did you go about the situation?
Well, in life you can never satisfy everyone even yourself because there are times when we needed something for ourselves but we prefer to assist others and deprive ourselves. Is quite unfortunate that in the society we are no matter how you help people they will still complain that you didn't give them much help then how about those that didn't get help at all. Borrowing money to people more especially relatives can be very stressful because they'll feel that since you're their relative you ain't gonna bother them so for me, any money I borrowed to a relation I consider that I have forgotten about it but if they still return it fine but if they don't I just allow the money to go.