We are busy making a successful life so that no one related to us won't suffer. Having a decent bank balance, having a property or having a car. Working to the extreme to make that dream come true.
Do you know that some people never consider every family member when they finally make the money that they seek? Because of how much suffering and stress that some of these people went through before getting rich, they like for other people and members in their family to experience such hardship. They will never help because they have the idea that they suffered much before they could get rich and should not just be giving it out.
do not loose yourself while trying to make money also includes not loosing your humanity that you are willing to do anything to make money, and not loosing your kindness due to the process it cost you to make money.