Of course, why would someone listen to those influencers on social media? doesn't make sense specially in terms of financial and other matters that pertains to our money. So still need to develop our own strategy, our own habits on how to be successful and not be a failure this year.
Each and everyone of us are built different, throughout my life's experiences, I have seen people who manifested money very quick and then there are individuals who will have to grind it out year in year out to make money. So just strategized what works for you and not copy others as everyone is not the same as far as financial and money goes.
What you say is very true, it is not a good choice to listen to influencers on social media when it comes to finances, we must be able to manage our own finances and never use money for things we don't really need if we want to have financial problems.
In achieving financial freedom there are different ways to be financially successful, as you said there are those who have to work hard to achieve financial success and there are even some people who work casually but have different results from people who work hard, indeed It would be better for us to have a way of managing our finances that is truly appropriate to what we need and not spend the income we have on things we don't need.