While setting up your Sparrow Wallet in the new wallet menu have you selected "P2WPKH-P2SH" for the script type? This is the menu that appears right before you have to click on “Connected Hardware Wallet”.
This is the right answer. You want to Sparrow to create a keystore at m/49'/0'/0', using the default account. It will then generate addresses starting at m/49'/0'/0'/0/0, meaning the address you see in Ledger Live at the derivation path you gave will be the 12th address in the wallet.