In my personal opinion I think that we don't need to focus on how much will lose and how much we own potential win. I always think that before doing gambling we should know our afford zone. And then we should make a strategy and set a limit then starting gambling. In this case I think we don't need to focus and your them lose and winning.
If we focus too much on winning or losing, of course we will rush into gambling and we won't be able to apply any strategy in the games we play, because we think too much about how to win or avoid losing in the gambling we play.
Yes I agree with you, when we use a strategy in gambling and have set a limit for us to gamble I don't think we will experience big losses in the gambling we play and when we have reached the winning limit in the game we play we will of course be able to stop and enjoy the victory that we have obtained.
Gamblers who show no appreciation for winning, would regret they won. Those who regret don't feel happy after winning because they would regret not wagering a bigger amount to the game. It's not a good form of gambling and such gamblers end up in huge regrets trying to stake next the designated huge amount in their mind. When they lose out the huge amount, they'll wonder and blame themselves why they didn't wager smaller amount of money. These experiences leave the player not to enjoy his gambling habit. As it's enticing to feel happy after winning, regardless of the amount we lose in the process. Enjoying the process is better than complaining over the amount we won in gambling. There are stages to the amount of money we wager in gambling, and we all can get to a level where we'd wager effortlessly huge amount of money.