* I can see in my wallet that the btc is incomming but pending confirmations 0
What fee (in sat/vbyte) did they use?
* I then send the coins from wallet "A" to wallet "B" - its says your coins is now sent even tho transaction from tumbler to wallet "A" is at 0 confirm.
* money never arrive at wallet "B", obviously because the payment from tumbler is still at 0 confirmations to wallet "A"
Which wallet are you using? Electrum for instance would show the transaction, but I think you'd see "-1" confirmations to emphasize it has unconfirmed parents.
I can see the incomming payment in my wallet "A" history and the outgoing payment for wallet "B" but both have 0 confirmations.
Its now been 3 days.
Your next action depends on details of your current transaction: if your incoming transaction is small (in bytes) and doesn't have unconfirmed parents, you could use CPFP by sending a transaction with higher fee. That's easiest if your wallet A still has a change output.
On the other hand, if your incoming transaction has many unconfirmed parents, it's going to be very expensive to get confirmed.
Current fees are quite high. I'd ask for your TXID, but that's bad for your privacy. So look it up yourself, for instance on mempool.space through Tor browser.
i am willing to pay 200$ in coins
Be careful believing the PMs you may receive.
when i look into the history of wallet "A" there is the incoming transaction from the tumbler with 0 confirm, when i search the trans.ID for it it says the fee is:15,323SATS • $6.56 - Wich should not count as low??
I would not consider the incoming transaction from the tumbler to count as small, if we are talking about the amount. its above 5k$