In my opinion, winning should not be made the main goal and focus in gambling because this point of view is something that is always the starting point of many problems that are likely to occur, starting from the wrong point of view which ultimately makes them gamble in the wrong way, such as forcing something (winning) too much, I understand that there is a possibility for the chances of winning to become a reality but all of that is out of the gambler's control, you can't force it by doing a lot of experiments because obviously there is no certainty whatsoever for winning at the end of the session, we can see a lot of gamblers who are stressed and I say that because they put too much hope and high expectations on gambling which ultimately makes them feel even more disappointed when the final result turns out to be losing again.
So for the problem of winning I think you can only wait for it without the need to force it by doing some careless or even stupid actions that you think can increase the chances, the way gambling works is not at all what you imagine, and what you do is nothing more than something out of hallucination that makes you seem to believe and believe but the final result slaps you again.
When playing gambling, we should not use gambling as a way to make money so that we will become eager to win. That will be difficult for us because gambling is not a job or a business that can make money. People who use gambling as a business should be aware of it immediately because it can make their lives a mess and they cannot recover their losses. There is a chance to win, but we can only force ourselves sometimes to win because it is difficult to achieve. We shouldn't have high hopes for gambling so that it will cause problems for us. By always limiting our gambling activities, we can prevent excessive gambling so that we will not experience more losses.
To get the win, we can only wait for the win to come by itself. We don't know when we will win so we are better off just gambling for fun. Loss after loss will come to us if we force ourselves to gamble continuously so that we will only lose a lot of money. This is where we need to realize that we cannot make money from gambling because a factor of loss will come so we can only gamble to get entertainment.
Exactly as I said earlier that it is really not recommended to put the goal on winning if you are involved in gambling, as you said and I agree that the fact is that gambling is not a generating activity like a real job out there, it is nothing more than a game of probability that gives chances to every gambler, we must remember and understand that it is nothing more than a "chance" without any certainty, so that means that it is not certain that you can make the winning chance come true, this result really cannot be forced because it will come by itself without knowing.
Every gambler should think and consider that it is not a victory but rather a reward for their participation, so obviously maybe you also understand that the name of the prize is synonymous with something that you can not always get. So the point is that forcing a win in gambling will only make you end up worse or that means it will only increase the amount you lose usually because gambling is not something that should be taken seriously but it is nothing more than a playground to get rid of boredom. On the other hand yes I have said before that maybe we can only wait for the victory to come by itself because we really don't know when it will come, so with this of course it is better to focus on applying boundaries and self-control rather than focusing on something that is not certain.