Different people have different ways of handling issues
I particularly expect heavy criticism for my posts,I mean come to think of it this forum has thousands of members who've been on it for quite some time gaining experience and insight into a lot of matters,I'm not trying to discredit newbies or anything but realistically a newbie ought to be either clearly wrong in some speculations or shortsighted hence the need for constructive criticism and I consider it a loss on the part of a newbie if he/she takes criticism to heart and doesn't consider the flip side which is correction or a source of improvement in the relevance and information contained in the post