I don't have a good idea what you had with o_e_l_e_o, Bruno and some others. But this is something very hard to read.

We can have a soar relation with someone but when the person is fighting death, I don't think as a human we take the chance of his weakness and hurt him mentally and physically.

Some virtues that makes us human and forgiveness is one of it that makes us a better human. Even in the battlefield when the enemy lost, wounded and dying - it's humanitarian that we give the helping hand and take him to the nearest hospital.