Hmm, not my experience at all. I just logged into Fidelity and was able to purchase FBTC just as easy as anything else.
Maybe you misunderstood my question. I want to purchase BTC ETF shares equivalent in value to an amount of BTC that I would send them from my private wallet, without selling my private wallet BTC first (thereby creating a taxable event). I would still be the owner (so no tax event) but the ETF issuer would now be the custodian.