personally, I don't like the idea of a lady going into gambling nit because it is totally bad but I feel that it doesn't fit their gender that much. Their was a certain time my female freeing for reasons best known to her decided that she was interested in soccer gambling and came to me for advice on how to go about it. I just told her to forget about it that I wouldn't tell her shit because it doesn't go down well with me that I am gambling and my woman would also gamble with me.

This is just a personal something and I know their are others that might find it cool that their wife is into gambling but I think before taking this decision of going into gambling as a leader you must have seen that it would go down well with your husband if he finds out and if that's the case then you are good to go.

But regarding the rules you've set out as bench mark you wouldn't cross as you start up your gambling journey, I feel they aren't necessary I you're going into a gambling niche that you enjoy playing with friends. Just don't for fun as a lady and don't allow yourself to become addicted or become used to it.