That's right, gambling isn't really bad for everyone, there are people who can't control themselves when it comes to gambling, so what happens is that their lives are ruined, some make gambling a job, others think it's easy to get money in gambling so they make it a short cut to get money immediately. If you don't know gambling and you are a greedy person, you will definitely get addicted to gambling and that's where the destruction of your life will start. Don't expect too much from gambling as you said brother. Gambling is too dangerous, it has ruined many lives, so think about whether you will enter gambling as well.
Yes, gambling will be bad if we can't control everything properly, such as not being able to control emotions when the situation is losing then the chances are high and what a person usually does in such a situation is to act out of control or do things that are beyond his ability which in the end actually makes the situation worse, on the other hand, yes what you said is true that there are some people who think that gambling is a job that will / can make a lot of money and can be used as a place to change their fortunes to become rich people in a short time, even though the fact is really far from that and quite the opposite.
Usually people who are prone to addiction are people who have such thoughts, they are too eager to pursue victory and also put hope and confidence in victory even though the percentage of defeat is actually greater, which means that defeat will occur more often than victory because it is not easy to get luck in a row to get a good victory, and also on the other hand, the name of luck can always not be predicted when it comes and goes, hoping for victory will only make you feel greater disappointment at the end of the session because what will happen more often is the risk of defeat.
I've learnt that strategy is as important as the game. We risk the most with raw, unrestrained emotion. I've been reckless in the heat of the moment, and those were my hardest lessons.
Not all are cautionary stories. Gambling may change people. Discipline, patience, and humility are needed. The fantasy of sudden riches is appealing, but the real magic is in seeing gambling as a blend of skill, chance, and fun.
Lets traverse this world of victories and loses with love and respect for the game, odds, and each other. Lets bet for fun, mental stimulation, and camaraderie, not simply money. In these moments of excitement and anticipation, we win.
I understand and I am sure that it is a situation that is very difficult to ignore, some people always suggest about the best things to do and what is recommended in common sense when we are involved in gambling activities, but I am not a hypocrite because I admit that it is very difficult not to do anything especially not to vent emotions when we find such situations, no matter even if you always assume that gambling should be a place of entertainment, because still overall you will definitely / have experienced situations where you are quite depressed and experience hot situations due to carelessness or anything especially defeat.
True, something in gambling, especially things that look tempting, can really change a person's way of thinking and the bad effects of gambling are also certainly the main thing that can change a person's behavior to become aggressive and uncontrollable. One of the solutions I think lies in the understanding and ability to accept that gambling is not only about winning but the possibility of losing should also not be ignored because by looking at this side we will think of taking action to save in any way that makes sense.