Before starting this topic so many things have been on my mind because I know how it pains for someone to criticise a write up or a post.
In a forum like this where so many intellects are contributing to a particular discussion there is always a room for criticism and the ability for you as newbie to absorb it as a learning process makes you unique and smart . For me Criticism is a process of learning because when ever I am been criticised I usually seize the opportunity to add more knowledge because I often see it as a corrective measures to widen my horizon .
Additionally, I will sincerely advice all the newbies who are quick to anger or discouraged when their post are been criticised to see it as a means of learning and not to react rudely because mistake brings correction .
Criticism teaches people that are ready to learn how to learn faster, some newbies don't have such knowledge that the more they are criticized the more they gain more understanding and Knowledge.
When one is being criticized when he or she posted something that's not correct next time the person will not do such as he will want to avoid criticism and attacking.
But when one is not ready to learn he will keep on doing it because he's not ready and such person can never be ready to learn.
Ami am happy to hear this as you already know that criticism are not bully but to me it's called motivations, when you are criticized people know are seeing you and when you start improving people who knows you before will be proud of you that you have improved.
Many of the times, some newbies have quick angry issues, and some of them just leave immediately they are criticized, those set of people can not learn.