So I used to refer people I've met on crypto online communities as he/him by default aka assumed they were dudes lol. It's possible a lot of folks have the same way of thinking.
I think that equality and distrust about gender identities in this space should be implemented and practiced by everyone. I've grown tired of reading about cases of fraud by a Tinder "pretty girl".
By the way, Thailand
[1] requires more special attention regarding OP's wishes

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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gender_identities_in_Thailand