I am not financially stable yet, so I am very much grateful for the appreciative increments in the Bitcoin market (bull-run) on going, I decided to cancel our marriage anniversary celebration because I insighted that there is more to gain In my continues hodling while the markets skyrockets than selling off my hodled coins just for ceremonial pleasures which can not profer me financial returns other than consuming the ones saved.
Now, my wife seized not to understand what my logical points about this are because she is not the one providing for the family.
You are already married and decisions like this needs to be taken sceptical. First of all, your wife knows you have some holdings in bitcoin and she prefer you to have the marriage ceremony than saving that money in bitcoin which you’re hoping for to make a good profit in the future. This is a marital issue and needs to be sought out by you guys and know which is priority over the other so that you don’t get to make your marriage life hard or full of misunderstandings with each other because of a small issue that is not worth been fighting about. If your wife knows what is bitcoin all about, she might agree to it but if she’s not, it’s her right that you need to provide for her to achieve all of her needs if you can afford it. Take your time, sit your wife down and you guys should sought yourselves out.
Secondly, what are you holding for in the first place? Wait, don't tell me you invest money meant for your marriage. Holding should have a goal to achieve. If your goal is to get married with it fine but if otherwise, I'll say you have no plans on ground. Moreover, invest with what you can afford to lose has been on a trend for as long as I can't remember and not investing with money meant for things like marriage. For instance, if bitcoin should go down to $0 dollar today, your marriage money is gone right? You have a long way to go.
You are mistaken and taken marriage anniversary as a new marriage. They are already married and the wife wants an anniversary for the wedding for how far they’ve spent together married I think. Bitcoin is meant to be invested in for the future but it shouldn’t be at the expense of not having an enjoyable life with you and your family. For instance I want an investment in bitcoin and have something important to do which when withheld can cause an increase in its price later, I would rather get that thing done and postpone my investment. It is the zeal to get to invest before bull run that matters and not the actual amount you’re able to invest before bull run and been living a life of discomfort to achieve your long term goals. Anytime you can invest before bull run is still okay and not stress yourself out to must have it when you can’t afford it at the time.