All those things the Op pointed out will manifest if really the coin was created to compete with other coins or cryptocurrencies because a real project of cryptocurrency supposed to develop itself to attain greatness and not to compete with others. Coins like Bitcoin, Ethereum, Eloncoin and some other altcoins are not competing with any other coins and they are doing things on their own.
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All projects should be treated good until the reverse is the case.
I agree with what you said, indeed every crypto project has the potential to get better and develop in order to contribute to its own ecosystem.