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Because of this how to stop in a game? What is the perception that others have? I have already said many reasons, family, money, reasons that go far beyond tending to what it is to be more human, but apart from this the people who cannot stop are driven by their desire to play and win, to recover losses and to do whatever it takes to get something good out of the casino, for this reason the topic is discussed here, but in reality what is the point? What can be taken as a general contribution so that it can be applied? If things have a lot to do with doing everything possible to attack the problem of addiction, what I think is that the core of everything is always the same, "The lack of money" and what is lost, but the Braking methods that have been discussed are:
-Self-control.
-Money willing to lose.
-Slow down because you have many obligations, including not losing or trying to lose them.
-Friends, who can help you with or without money.
Of all this, what else can work?
I speak from my point of view of experience, I control myself first with the money that I am willing to lose and that is for the reason that I do not go beyond that, but that is not something that I discovered, I did not always make the mistakes What newbies do, in some way I didn't learn, but of course when a person already has children, has a family, then things are very different, because many already depend on one, and I think that is the biggest brake of all, of all. made a person who has that, for me it is a great treasure, it is what almost everyone fights to have, so lose it for playing? for an addiction, I think that these reasons are far above an addiction, and a person who does not yet have children but is falling into addiction has to start thinking, first that he is of a certain age and has to have a house, a car, comforts, because what you do is when you are young, I don't want to say that when you are advanced in age you can't, if you can, but that is not the idea.
Actually, to stop from playing the game we can do it ourselves, even though there may be friends who remind us to stop but if we ourselves still want to play maybe the advice from our friends will have no effect. Therefore, to be able to stop with the game that is done, there must be your own awareness, not with other people. It's true what you said is because of their urge to get the victory that makes it difficult for them to stop, because I have also felt it. I don't think it's just a lack of money, but a lack of awareness as well, because I think if they can be aware of the loss side that is certain maybe they can stop playing at certain times, namely when they lose or win. Also with this awareness they can see their own finances if they lose the game and realize with no more money then they can stop not forcing themselves to continue gambling when they have no money.
That's right, because the key to managing finances is good self-control, now suppose we have a lot of money but on the other hand we don't have good self-control over the money we have in terms of playing betting games. Then the money owned will of course run out quickly because of the absence of good self-control. the same is the case with us if we already have our own family, of course we must have a sense of great responsibility towards our family and finances, where we must be able to control ourselves by managing finances, do not let us spend the money we have on the game alone while the other side ignores the family that should be a responsibility, therefore self-control in my opinion is the most important point that must be considered in playing the game.