Here's the log output of my node which seems to show it knew the address was associated to the wallet:
2024-02-20T13:27:05Z [default wallet] AddToWallet 808400b94672ec7231371432706cda38f2356e9b5435917d287349d223578d26 new
2024-02-20T13:56:21Z [default wallet] AddToWallet 808400b94672ec7231371432706cda38f2356e9b5435917d287349d223578d26 update
2024-02-20T14:00:20Z [default wallet] AddToWallet 1ae01f4f3d68a08658fbf03149ed20dab83e8a775d6e412e23ded991e4de85ac new
2024-02-20T14:01:14Z [default wallet] AddToWallet 1ae01f4f3d68a08658fbf03149ed20dab83e8a775d6e412e23ded991e4de85ac update
2024-02-20T14:03:13Z [default wallet] AddToWallet efa697ee815ee0d2b4840c436836efd5c94fc550d0da55a9513ecfef2562e68f new
That would make sense to me but my thoughts are that if it was in fact as you described, then why would my node's log show the above transactions added to the nodes watch only list at the specific times rather than wait to add them ntil post transmission to the bc1qgrjjf3xaf9ejmm5lcsfl0e2ep63t6zcxf7h9sw address?
2024-02-20T13:27:05Z [default wallet] AddToWallet 808400b94672ec7231371432706cda38f2356e9b5435917d287349d223578d26 new
2024-02-20T13:56:21Z [default wallet] AddToWallet 808400b94672ec7231371432706cda38f2356e9b5435917d287349d223578d26 update
2024-02-20T14:00:20Z [default wallet] AddToWallet 1ae01f4f3d68a08658fbf03149ed20dab83e8a775d6e412e23ded991e4de85ac new
2024-02-20T14:01:14Z [default wallet] AddToWallet 1ae01f4f3d68a08658fbf03149ed20dab83e8a775d6e412e23ded991e4de85ac update
2024-02-20T14:03:13Z [default wallet] AddToWallet efa697ee815ee0d2b4840c436836efd5c94fc550d0da55a9513ecfef2562e68f new
That would make sense to me but my thoughts are that if it was in fact as you described, then why would my node's log show the above transactions added to the nodes watch only list at the specific times rather than wait to add them ntil post transmission to the bc1qgrjjf3xaf9ejmm5lcsfl0e2ep63t6zcxf7h9sw address?