In my opinion, there are very few young people who can manage their finances well and think about their future. In fact, in my opinion, many young people only think about temporary pleasures, where they compete to be stylish because they want the amount of praise they get, or maybe this only happens in my country. because in my country there are many young people like this, they tend not to think about their future until they spend their money just to be stylish and enjoy their youth full of fun.
That's true, in fact, in my opinion, if we are already married, we should have a steady income, because there are other souls that we have to support, such as a wife and children if we already have children. and I think having a steady income when you get married can be said to be mandatory. because if you are married but don't have a steady income, I think the household could fall apart. I agree with you, starting a marriage is the beginning of a life where we have full responsibility for those around us. therefore we must have a steady income to survive.
When we want to try, there will definitely be a way to get sustenance, therefore we need to go through this process because Allah also tells humans to try and pray. The problem of getting married will be much more difficult when someone does not have a permanent job because usually the first five years of marriage are tested financially and unfortunately there are still many people who are unable to pass this test. A small income is definitely enough as long as it is stable because the problem is when people are unable to earn money to meet their daily living needs as a family.
Young people are more productive and have creative ideas to develop their potential, but don't be afraid of failure when starting out and children's dependence on technology can easily be used to make money. If at a young age he has been thoroughly prepared for all the processes for life, then when he gets married, life will not be chaotic because he has the option to support his family.
Yes I agree with you, as long as we have the will to be able to progress or develop which basically leads to positive things, there must be a way, therefore at a young age in my opinion we should be able to try in good things such as making money, of course with an adult age I myself am embarrassed if I still depend on my parents. Therefore at a young age I insist on making money by getting a decent job, because I myself have desires that must be completed, therefore I try as much as I can, also by having a job that produces we must be able to manage the money well. Dividing which is for our needs including snacks and also saving and giving some of the income to the family (parents).
That might be the case if young people really think about their future, in contrast to many young people today, they are reluctant to step out of their comfort zone even though it does not generate income for them, while the other side with their mature age of course my thoughts must also be mature. I agree with you that preparing everything at a young age is of course the best way to prepare for the future. Including marriage.