It's better to focus on how to win and be positive for it helps to see better choices while you are already in a situation.
I do not agree with this. I am gambling and I have friends that are gambling. We focus on winning and we gamble often but we lose more. The more most gamblers focus on winning, the more the house will earn money from them. We have advised ourselves not to use money that can affect our feelings to gamble which is the right advise. That advice alone is because we also focus on the fact that we are losing.
Exactly. While some people believe that focus on the wins on makes them make wrong decisions during their gambling activities, some other persons believe that it help them strategize properly. And actually proper strategy is a very nice way to carry out a gambling activity as it greatly improves our winning chances and lowers our chances of losing.
Like I always say the drive every gambler has is different for each individual but the catch is to make sure you don't have the wrong choice of drive which can lead you into making wrong decisions or bad habits which can lead you into addiction.