How then do I mange the expectation of people on me such that i don't get into depression when I'm unable to meet up with it.?
It's almost like everyone knows you're going to succeed but don't even care about what you're passing through while you're striving to make them proud.
Making expectations as a target that we must aim for is still a good enough thing to do but in the end in this case we also have to be someone who is realistic so that the expectations we expect do not end in regret and failure.
The situation that happens now is that most people set their expectations too high so that they cannot be achieved which makes them give up halfway.
Expectations can ultimately be a good morale booster but sometimes it actually brings down the mentality that we have so in this case it is important for us to try to be realistic in thinking about expectations so that they are not too high because after all this is quite an important thing in my opinion.
We do have to have sky-high dreams so that we continue to be motivated by what we want to achieve but for the problem of expectations we must be able to distinguish this because after all expectations can be a double-edged sword for ourselves.