Well we all know that there's no wise man on earth that will say he or she has never fall victim of borrowing money to someone, because some may come with so politely was and Christianity mind to ask you for help and may be he or she might be your best friend whom you have never expected that he or she will ever disappoint you,but unfortunately he or she disappointed you, well it's not really your fault, just that the world is full of evil and you never can tell who is who, because even your blood brothers or sisters can do the same to you too.
Now this is how I handle my case in this such because no one is above mistake or as long as you are in this world you are entitled to come across disappointment in one way or the other.and this is how I do it, whenever I borrowed someone money and he or she promised me to return the money back to me and later he or she failed me,
(1)it will pain me very well especially if the money is very big but I don't make case with anyone because of what of help I render to you, I will try to advise myself and bear the pain, but I will never have anything to do with that kind of person,no matter the strategies he or she may come again with you can never convince me again,
(2) I will lose trust on that very person, and I can never believe that kind of person again..
(3) I will never borrow you money again no matter what might happen, I can only give you what I can and never expected you for a return...if I have to give if I don't have I will still tell you i don't have..