I am not financially stable yet, so I am very much grateful for the appreciative increments in the Bitcoin market (bull-run) on going, I decided to cancel our marriage anniversary celebration because I insighted that there is more to gain In my continues hodling while the markets skyrockets than selling off my hodled coins just for ceremonial pleasures which can not profer me financial returns other than consuming the ones saved.
Now, my wife seized not to understand what my logical points about this are because she is not the one providing for the family.
As a woman she is, I clearly understood that they are attracted to pleasures especially on activities that attracts public attentions. These species of humans (women) fails to understand that it is money that afford those pleasury materials and activities they craves for which one has to utilize himself logically in economical situations so as to create financial balanced system before chasing after those financial consuming activities without the potentials of yielding incomes.
It seems that you here still like calculations, if the matter is for marriage then it is a joint decision and you as a man of course have to be prepared for the costs incurred. If you still have immature thoughts about this, it is better for you not to get married and try to reflect on yourself that marriage is not about financial gains and losses, it is no longer about your money and your wife's money. I know you may be in the comfort phase of investing, but be rational in responding to the market because you can encounter all of this before and after marriage. Delaying an agreement with another party is too childish if you still think like this. Having a family means you have to put your ego aside, it's clear here that you still don't feel like sharing the profits and happiness with your future wife.
What you say is very true, if we don't have mature thoughts about this, it would be better for us to postpone considering what we have planned because if we only think about ourselves and don't think about our partner in this case, of course we are not ready to build household with our partner and if we are too pushy to do it, problems will arise when we are in a relationship as husband and wife later and of course this is something no one ever wants to happen.