How do you deal with the situation where people who you are close to like family and friends are constantly demanding for one kind of financial assistance or the other. It is not possible to help everyone, so how do you handle it and make sure that giving and trying to help people do not turn into a problem for you. How about people who borrow money from you and never return it or even show any effort to make payment back to you, how did you go about the situation?
I will let Them see my living and they will understand that I cannot just lend them here and there because my funds are limited and my family also needs money .
there is nothing wrong to deny them because it is your money and you have your own life.
Giving them fish will make them lazy all their life but teaching them to fish will feed them all their life.