Does any of feel behavioral change in you based on the win/loss in gambling. Myself had experienced it, and personally I used to be happy and I used to be polite with my family members and kid whenever I am on profit. On the day of losing it changes exactly in the opposite way, even for simple things I get much anger. Particularly while giving food to kid patience is must. On winning days I let him take his own time and eat. On the losing days I used to shout at him. I'm addicted, and I want fellow gamblers to make a self analysis at regular interval and be on the safer side.
Thier is nothing strange about this feeling. If you're not winning, it's almost impossible for you to be happy about it and regardless of how good you are in keeping situations to yourself, you can't cope by not showing it to people around you.
What's necessary is just the ability to managing your temper at that instance so it doesn't become a serious issue that could lead you to transfering aggression on someone else. Most of this unnoticed impolse needs you to control them as the boss of your life and so you need to basically tell yourself that if you've lost, that's just it, no one should have to be molested for that reason, deal with the loss naturedly and know that what has happen has actually happened and Thier is absolutely nothing you can do about it.