I am not financially stable yet, so I am very much grateful for the appreciative increments in the Bitcoin market (bull-run) on going, I decided to cancel our marriage anniversary celebration because I insighted that there is more to gain In my continues hodling while the markets skyrockets than selling off my hodled coins just for ceremonial pleasures which can not profer me financial returns other than consuming the ones saved.
Now, my wife seized not to understand what my logical points about this are because she is not the one providing for the family.
Don't be too hard on your family and you also need to think about their happiness even though it is ceremonial. A small celebration will not waste all the money you have because you can use other money to give your wife a little surprise. Ignoring small things that are full of meaning will lose sensitivity and instead we will be too greedy in making money, then forget about small celebrations with family.
As a woman she is, I clearly understood that they are attracted to pleasures especially on activities that attracts public attentions. These species of humans (women) fails to understand that it is money that afford those pleasury materials and activities they craves for which one has to utilize himself logically in economical situations so as to create financial balanced system before chasing after those financial consuming activities without the potentials of yielding incomes.
Preparing your finances to be better is really necessary, but at a certain stage you don't need to force everything into investing. Creating better financial resources must be prepared but also not neglecting other things. I have seen how greedy people are in making money and they are actually unhappy and then try to think about why having a lot of money if our life is not happy. It's useless to make a lot of money if someone ignores the family at important celebrations because actually money can be earned but happiness needs to be prepared.